You get to be there when she says yes to the dress! This is one of the most exciting parts. This makes it less of a load on you and it’s more fun! 3. You, the bridesmaids, and the bride can get together, put on your favorite tunes, bring out the wine, and tackle some DIY. She may ask for tips on the cutest color scheme, wedding cake flavors, and décor, and she’ll definitely want your input on the bridesmaid dresses! We are a generation of DIY, so if the bride is looking to make anything, prepare for the possibility of throwing a DIY party. The bride will likely come to you to get your thoughts and feedback during the wedding planning process. Photo courtesy of Ty James Photography 2. Be there to listen and to take her out to help get her mind off things when needed. The wedding is going to take up a lot her mental head space and it’s your job to check in on her and see how she is doing. The moment the bride said "yes," a long to-do-list was formed in her mind.
We’ve got you covered and have concocted a checklist of everything you need to know about your duties as the MOH throughout the entire wedding process. Your feelings are totally normal, and lucky for you, many have been in your shoes. You’ll be the glamorous hero that will be the bride’s backup at every twist and turn.Īt this point you may be feeling a little overwhelmed and unsure of what being a maid of honor even entails. It’s more like an exhilarating and absolutely rewarding run.
Being a maid of honor is no walk in the park. But with great power comes great responsibility.
Whether that be your sister, family member, or bestie, you’ve had your maid of honor proposal and you’re feeling over the moon happy because it’s the highest honor! You have been chosen because of your bond with the bride and will be given the opportunity to showcase your support and flex your planning and problem-solving skills. That special person in your life asked you the big question.